Friday, March 08, 2013

Dan's Special Olympics


Dan participated in the Northside Independent School District's Special Olympics this last week.  The event started out with a parade of athletes.  The kids carry noise makers and cheer as they pass the stands.


After opening ceremonies it is off to his first event.  This year he participated in the Standing Long Jump.


Here he is with his game face on.


Dan was there to win!!!


The Junior ROTC from  Brennan High School where there to cheer on the athletes and hand out medals.


Dan got Gold!!!!

His second event was the 100 meter run.  


He took bronze.  After the events were over we had closing ceremonies where Galm Elementary won the spirit award.  We have enjoyed being able to participate in these events here in San Antonio.  

Good On Nate

Nate has two personalities, his home persona and his school persona.  At school he is quiet and studious.  At home he likes to push buttons and be in the middle of things.  I have gotten the opportunity the last little while to get a peek of his school persona.

I received a call from the principal at Luna Middle School asking me if I was the mother of Nate Holmes.  After I had a little heart attack, she told me that she wanted to let me know personally what a unique son I had.  It seems Nate had found $20.00 and turned it in so someone could claim it.  After the required waiting period, Nate was called back in and told that the money was his since no one had claimed it.  The principal explained to Nate that he had three choices:  he could keep all the money for himself, he could donate part of the money to the Military Brats Club that were doing a fundraiser to send care packages to deployed military members, or he could donate all the money.  Without a second thought he donated all $20.00 to the Military Brats Club.  He explained to the principal that his dad had been deployed and he wanted to make the experience easier for his classmates than it was for him.  The principal was so impressed that she nominated him for a Citizenship Award in the Northside Independent School District.  

While I was at the school this last week I got to interact with a couple of the teachers that Nate has daily contact with.  Not once but twice I was told what a wonderful son I had.  How he was a well mannered, intelligent young man.

So proud to be his mommy.  

Matt's Choir Competition



This last week Matt participated in his UIL Choir Competition and I volunteered to be one of the parent chaperons.    


It started with practice at the middle school with their choir director Ms. Koppe.  Then we were on to the bus and off to O'Conner High School.


The Men's Choir is made up of 7th and 8th grade students.  They sang three prepared songs, one of which was acapella.  The boys were amazing.  


Then they had a sight reading potion of the competition were they had 6 minutes to learn a song without accompaniment or singing.  Amazing again.  And I wasn't the only one that thought so.  All the judges gave them the highest mark available.  But the big complement of the day was when after the sight reading portion was done the lead judge approached Matt and shook his hand.  He told Matt to continue to be the leader that he was and not let he friends down.  He was the only one that the judge spoke to.  


Monday, March 04, 2013

Matt is going to be Published

Matt was encouraged by his Teacher's Adviser, Bro. Russel Wilcox, to write an article for The Friend.  With Bro. Wilcox's help his article was accepted and will some day be published.



The Day my Dad was Deployed
by Matthew Holmes

Based on a True Story

My dad serves in the air force and it's normally pretty great.  One day, however, he came home from work and told us he was going to be deployed.  I was so sad and couldn't imagine having him gone for six whole months.  On tops of that I was worried that he would miss my 12th birthday and that he wouldn't be able to give me the Aaronic priesthood.  My birthday is October 12th and my dad said he knew God was watching over our family because he wasn't going to be deployed until November and he would be home for my birthday to give me the priesthood.

As my birthday got closer my dad got a letter from the Air Force informing him that they had moved his deployment up to October 11th, the day before my birthday.  I couldn't believe my horrible luck.  We spent the entire day on the telephone trying to call people in the Air Force to see if we could change his deployment back to the original date and trying to call our Bishop to see if there was any way to ordain me a day before my birthday.  Nothing was working out.  I stated to feel a little angry at God.  i was almost in tears when I went to bed that night.  Finally my dad came into my room and told me he'd been praying and knew that God would provide a way for thing to work out so he could still give me the priesthood.  He asked me to pray and trust that God, who could do all things, would find a way to make this happen.

I prayed every morning and every night for my dad to be able to give me the priesthood and as October 11th got closer I started to wonder if God was hearing my prayers.  My dad was still scheduled to leave.  Then few days before my dad left, my parents found out that his leaders in the Air Force planned to send him to a special training before  deploying him overseas.  My parents hurried and found out when the training was scheduled to end so they could get a ticket for dad to fly home right after the training.  Still, they were not sure if his leaders would let him come home.  I kept praying.

When my dad left on October 11th he hugged me and whispered in my ear that he knew God would provide a way for him to give me the priesthood before being deployed.  When he arrived at the training he received the word that he would be allowed to come home the weekend the training finished as long as everyone in the training finished it on time.

As the training started things weren't looking so good because some of the men weren't taking the training seriously.  My whole family prayed and fasted together and God answered our prayers because the men changed their attitudes and the training finished on time.  My dad was able to come home the weekend after my birthday and ordained me to be a Deacon.  it was the best day ever and even though the next six months were hard without my dad they easier because i had the priesthood and I knew that God cared about our family.  He heard and answered my prayer.


Sunday, March 03, 2013

Tooting My Own Horn

I really don't like making a big deal about what I do.  I think if you love what you do you have reward enough, but this last month the commander of the Dental Group wanted to nominate me for the Key Spouse of the Year award for the 59th Medical Wing.  Who knew that such an honor would be so much work.  First I needed to put together a list of everything I have done in the last year in my Key Spouse position along with my community work.  So this is what I came up with:

Key Spouse Bullet Points
·         59th Medical Wing Key Spouse appointment January 2012
o   POC for 6500 Military Families
o   Brief  Monthly at 59th MDW Newcomer Briefing to an average of 200 Airman & Civilians
o   Brief Weekly at 59th MDW Deployment Readiness Information  (DRIFT) to an average of 20 Airman
o   Contact 500+ pre-deployed/deployed military families every 6 weeks during respective deployments
o   Attend and Inform an average of 50 families at Deployment Picnic Semi Annually
o   Brief at Squadron Commanders Calls and Command Meetings throughout the 59th MDW
o   Keep families informed of events and programs through starting  and daily updating  the 59th MDW Key Spouse Facebook Page
o   Hold Quarterly 59th MDW Key Spouse training meetings for 15 Key Spouses to include Privacy Act of 1974, suicide awareness, community resources, base programs
o   Attend monthly JBSA-Lackland Key Spouse meetings for continued education on current Air Force and command trends /issues
o   Maintain Deployed Family Contact Information for 1500+ yearly
o   Meet regularly with Command Chief James and Key Spouse Mentor Debbie Hepburn for direction
o   Attended  and informed 120 families at the 59th MDW Resident Welcome Dinner
o   Attend and inform an average of 30 families at Deployed Family Night Out Semi Annually
o   Staffed Key Spouse Office for 200 hours in 2012
o   12 hours of Key Spouse training through Airman and Family Readiness including  Key Spouse program course, Privacy Act of 1974, suicide awareness, and Heart Link Orientation
    • Provided support and ensured proper counseling to post deployment spouse dealing with reunion and reintegration issues
    • Oversaw efforts to support deployed spouse dealing with a son with special needs insuring members ability to maintain deployment
    • Ensured support for family effected by house fire by soliciting donations from families throughout the MDW
    • Coordinated donations from Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Texas, USO of San Antonio, and Operation Military Kids to provide Care Packages for 200 military children attending Operation Jet
    • Provided support and information to newcomer family with medical needs daughter to ensure continuity of care 

·         59th Dental Group Key Spouse appointment May 2010
o   POC for 450 Military Families
o   Brief Monthly at 59th DG Newcomer Briefing an average of 20 Airman
o   Brief at DG Commander Calls
o   Contact 75 Newcomer Families
o   Attend Dental Activity Committee Meetings
o   Meet Monthly with Col. Graver for direction
o   Contact 5 deployed families monthly during respective deployments
o   Coordinate meals for post-partum deployed family
o   Educated member on civilian career opportunities

·         Member of the Big Brothers Big Sisters of Southern Texas  Military Advisory Committee
o   Attended and informed families at the Fiesta De Ninos
o   Assisted in recruiting 80 military children as “Little Brother/Sisters”
o   Assisted in recruiting 50 military members as “Big Brothers/Sisters”
o   Attend Monthly Committee Meetings
o   Liaison for Big Brothers Big Sisters to military families

·         Member of the Wilford Hall Auxiliary Board
o   Attend Monthly Board Meetings
o   Coordinated Reunion/Reintegration presenters for Deployed Family Night Out

·         Boy Scout of America Troop 620 Board Member
o   Advancement Chair
o   Coordinate Monthly Board of Reviews for 2-5 Scouts
o   Coordinate Quarterly Award Presentations
o   Attend Monthly Board Meetings
o   Track 30 Scout’s Advancements
o   Maintain Computerized Achievement Program
o   Maintain Troop Information Website
o   Boy Scouts of America Youth Protection Trained

·         Boy Scout of America Pack 620 Board Member
o   Advancement Chair
o   Attend Monthly Board Meeting
o   Plan Monthly Pack Meeting
o   Track 15 Cub Scout Advancements
o   Maintain Computerized Achievement Program
o   Walking Den Leader during Cub Scout Day Camp
o   Substitute Cub Master

 I also needed to come up with a biography to be read if/when I receive the award.


Bio

Mrs. Kristen M. Holmes is the 59th Medical Wing Key Spouse and the 59th Dental Group Key Spouse for Joint Base San Antonio, Texas.  Mrs. Holmes was born in Provo, UT on February 3, 1978.  She is the eldest of four children born to Dr. Douglas & Mrs. Cheryl Smith.  As a senior at Mountain View High School she was asked to represent the state of Arizona at the national convention for the Future Homemakers of America – Home Economics Related Occupations (FHA-HERO) for her community service.  Over the last 15 years Mrs. Holmes has served as a youth leader, women’s organization activities coordinator, Sunday school teacher, and volunteer coordinator in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.  She is active in the Boy Scouts of America at both the Cub Scout and Boy Scout level.   She has served as den leader, Cub Master, committee member, and advancement coordinator.   Mrs. Holmes currently is a member of the Big Brothers Big Sisters of South Texas Military Advisory Committee (MAC) whose mission is to partner military children with mentors.  Mrs. Holmes also serves as the Key Spouse Representative on the Wilford Hall Auxiliary Board.  Kristen considers her greatest accomplishments those of being wife to a United States Airman, Maj. Douglas C. Holmes (s) DMD and mother to three young men.  

Last but not least was the official photo.  This is the part I liked the least but it is done now.


Now we just wait to hear if I got the Wing award.  From there my "package" goes to the Base level, then to the Major Command level, and if I'm really unlucky to the Air Force Command level.  No good deed goes unpunished.  


On the Move Again




Doug received orders for our upcoming move this June.  We are off to Spangdahlem, Germany for three years. 



Although moving to a different country is almost overwhelming in the amount of work that needs to be done we are really looking forward to all the opportunities that this move is going to give us.  So save your pennies to come visit us!!!!

Christmas 2012

Christmas was in San Antonio this year.  We enjoyed some of our favorite traditions.  Christmas Eve was Cheese and Broccoli Soup for dinner followed by the Christmas story, and then opening Christmas jammies.  Love the footy jammies on my pre-teen and teenagers.  



After that was the Night Before Christmas and everyone to bed.




The next morning was opening presents which included the much awaited Ipod Touch for each of them.
I must add this was the quietest Christmas ever.


This year I went crazy on the Christmas cookie making (blame it on Pinterest).  I made way too many cookies with the winners being the Peppermint Oreo Truffles and the Egg Nog cookies.


 Christmas dinner included ham, grits, and rolls.  A good time was had by all.


Football Season


For those of you that follow my status posts on Facebook you know that last fall was taken up with football games.  This year both Matt and Nate played for Luna Middle School.  Both boys played wide receiver position X (don't ask me what that means but they seem to think it's important.)  This meant a crazy schedule for Doug and I because both boys played the same school at the same time in different places.  So Doug and I decided to divide and concur.  One of us would take the home games for a month while the other would take the away game and then we would switch.  This seemed to work pretty well as long as we text each other updates on the games we were watching.  



Matt was less than happy with his team this year as they had a losing season but looked good doing it. 



Nate on the other hand had a wonderful winning season, but has since decided to hang up his cleats for good.  One season was enough for him.





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