This last month I have been in a funk. I have felt like Eeyore with a cloud over my head. I don't know why, maybe I've been too busy or not busy enough. Maybe I've not been eating right or not getting enough exercise. Or maybe it was just one of those times that I needed to be in a funk. Needless to say, I have emerged. I am using my planner again (yes it had gotten that bad), showers and make-up are being accomplished, and I even want to spend time with humans.
Yesterday, I sat wondering if I was making "everyday" memories with my boys. I do pretty good with big events (holidays, birthdays, outings, etc.) but I wonder if my boys have things that they will look back and say "Do you remember when Mom did so and so" (with so and so being something good). So I decided to make an "everyday" memory with the boys.
Doug and I try to teach the boys to work hard but to also balance that with play. Right now it is more adding work to play but we are trying. So yesterday I told the boys that if we got the house (including their rooms) dusted, vacuumed, moped, and generally put in order we would do something special. Now I haven't raised any dummies and so they wanted to know what the special thing was. I told them we would blow up the camping air mattresses so we could lay on the floor and watch as many Harry Potter movies as we could stand.
For those of you who have never lived in a place that reaches 110 degrees outside will wonder what am I thinking keeping my boys inside and rotting their brains with T.V., but trust me this is much better than heat stroke.
My boys happily helped get the house in order and were so excited to get our movie marathon going. The best part for them is that I laid on those ever deflating mattresses with them the whole time and we even slept in the living room that night. We all had our favorite pillows and blankets to snuggle into. I was able to hold them close for hours and even closer when the movies got a little intense.
I hope that one day they will look back and say "Do you remember when Mom pumped up those old camping mattresses that wouldn't hold air and laid on the floor with us while we all watched those goofy Harry Potter movies. She was nuts and we loved it!"